Before Meiji-era modernization and the spread of prudish Victorian morals, parts of feudal Japan were surprisingly sexually permissive. Case in point: yobai, or “night-crawling,” a courtship custom that allowed young lovers to test their compatibility before marriage with furtive nighttime visits. The situationship of yore… (OK, not really; it’s a lot more complicated than that.)
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It’s the middle of the night in rural Kyushu circa the 1700s. A young man is quietly making his way toward the house of a young woman who caught his eye during the last harvest festival. Today, she’s sleeping in a back room, which will give them extra privacy. He finds the door thanks to a fortunately forgotten lantern. He goes inside, and the girl tells him her parents are already asleep.
What a series of lucky breaks for the boy. Except — not really. Welcome to the fascinating world of feudal Japan’s “free love within rules,” known as yobai (night-crawling).
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